do you guys think im ugly?

=3= your not ugly bro or post more pics proving you are cause you look fine in your profile picture

First and foremost, ugly is subjective, you may think you're ugly but there are people who don't think that. Next, if you're just looking for sex, then do what Lamby said, I'm older than you and I haven't had sex, but I'd rather do it with someone I love and that loves me. Finally, you say you're ugly, but look at my face, trust me almost everyone is too hard on themselves. TL:DR Don't worry about it

As long as your not spongebob http://youtu.be/3yAbIU4A5qU then your good :D You look fine, dont worry

Omg! Guys?! Was this how I was like before I left on my spiritual journey!?!?!?!? In all seriousness bro. It will happen in due time. Confidence is key and communication. Don't be afraid or too shy to say "Hey" to a girl. Always listen to what a girl has to say and make the convos about her, and not just about yourself. In my experience girls always loved it when I flirted with them after getting to know them about a week. With you though...hmmm try to practice with a friend first. That way you don't look "too cocky" or "desperate". Dude I am 21 and I was just in the same predicament as you. I left my home to go across the country to attend a boot camp for merchant mariners. Which broke me down and then brought me back up. I was 300lbs and I lost 50lbs so far. I worked out and ran everyday. Not saying I did this for love, but I did it for me. Work on yourself first until you feel confident enough to pursue a "hook up" or "relationship". Both of which are not bad at all.

If you're honestly just looking to hook up then I'd definitely try Craigslist but like others have said sex isn't all that it's cracked up to be. I think looking for a deeper emotional connection makes it much better than just getting around with tons of random people

In my opinion....your first time needs to be earned from the fruits of your labor. It creates a very satisfying and proud feeling within yourself. A close friend of mine once told me...."A predator who does not know how to hunt is no predator at all"

If you aren't willing to listen to any of us and you continue to beat yourself down it is more of an issue on your part. You are not ugly. People who take things at face value are ugly, people with bad personalities are ugly. You do not have a bad personality, you are just really lonely yes? Do you know what is incredibly unattractive? Acting lonely. People are generally more attracted to others that do not reek of desperation, not trying to be rude! I am just telling you what I know from experience. I was just like you, but I had to change myself in order to get any better. Sitting around and complaining isn't going to help, friend.

Snake, Bad, very bad analogy. Comparing "getting laid" to hunting, that makes it sound like a need or as if you're owed sex because you've "earned" it or like you're a predator that goes for the weakest and easiest prey to get. I mean, if sex is all you're after, by all means "hunt". But to me, it needs to be more like a garden. You plant seeds (Create an interest), cultivate (Nurture the potential relationship) and harvest(Get the rewards of a healthy relationship). Like planting seeds, not everything will or has to lead to growth and progression.