Help me understand

Actually, despite our different experiences, we share a lot of common ground simply because we're all human. We're not as different as it's being advertised by the media. That special snowflake and all that? Forget about it. It's a selling point for whatever their agenda is. Just because someone went through a different experience doesn't mean you can't learn from it or draw parallels and find how it could apply to one of yours. In fact, everything important you want to do in your life should follow this one step: gather data from as many sources as possible. ;)

im taking my time, im thirty and still am waiting for a good friend thats a girl or more. i geuss i dont make a big deal about it. sometimes i kinda do because it natural, you cant stop your brain from not thinking about being with someone the rest of your life. like a killer you cant stop those thoughts, its the oppisit but im starting to talk about randome stuff crap

Whats the rush? Some people are just really lonely. Or are worried they are never going to find that one. Personally I don't see a need to rush either. And while I may try for a girl here or there...or may flirt with possibilities here or there ultimately I'm just letting things flow. Most don't think they have time for that. So with this...when they see a girl...and the girl actually replies to them... "Omfg! Dhehdjsiebdbs.... Time to get married?" *shrug* or maybe just the lacking social skills like what was said before...either or

Thats the thing. Its hard to acknowledge, or even admit at that age that they have nothing BUT time. Most males don't actually reach their peak of relationship success until they're about 27 anyways. Right out of college, all those guys who have been out in the world for a few years naturally have much more emotional maturity, and generally have their lives together. (Or at least it looks that way to a girl who just graduated) So there really isn't much of a need to rush. Bottom line, unless they are in an area where there isn't much competition, guys from ages 21-25 generally have it way harder getting noticed. And thats normal. It will be a harsh blow on your self esteem of course, if you don't realize what's going on. But thats just the nature of how female attraction works. And usually, if a guy keeps in shape, gets his life in order, builds a set of useful skills, and expands his social network, then by the time he's in his late twenties, he naturally looks like a much better option. This may be a disheartening thing to hear of course, and by all means, never give up. You have to sharpen your social skills while your young, and if you can land success with girls during these years, celebrate. Its not impossible, just uncommon. Build skills like empathy, good eye contact, good conversational skills. Make mistakes. (Not big ones. Use common sense) Grow from your experiences. There is a pay off in the end, even if all you have learned is what not to do.

This website may be a place for people who are single and who love Anime. But you can also make friends too. I always start slow with making friends then maybe a possible build up to a relationship. It is always good to start things slow. ^^ If not a relationship, then friendship. :3 There are people here who are taken and still here.