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zachthenerd

zachthenerd

35 year old Male
Single
Last online about 7 years ago
Apopka, FL
About MeUpdate:1/1/2017
Heavily looking for someone!!
-Warning profile is vary detailed in what i am looking for I'm my companion "Doctor Who reference”. I will be going over many subjects so this is going to be a vary long read.-

Hello ladies I would like to thank you for taking the Time and Patience to read my profile it is a long read. Again this is a long read the reason this is going to be so long is because I am going Inform you of my character and my experiences and what I am looking for in my partner. So I been in two Serious relationships both over two years each. My first Serious relationship was with a lady who we kinda had some things in common to a point at the time I was in my early 20’s and up until that I had no confidence in my self and I wasn’t Attracted to her physically and over time mentally. During time I was with her I gained some confidence in my self and for her as will she was immature and lacked a lot of things. We both were virgins and I know I would have a high sex drive which I do but at time when we Started having sex I don’t like it barely enjoyed it the soul fact of that was because I wasn’t attracted to her so I felt At that point sex was overrated she end up a year later breaking up with me because stupid reasons. “if you want to know more of everything that happen with any of these ladies just ask” After that I started to date this one girl for a few weeks and learn that in fact that I was happy wrong about sex up to that point. That end really bad for me because she was using me three weeks maybe four I met my second serious relationship which the last up to this point. When first started talking I thought we had things in common to find I was lied to there’s a lot two this one and I want to keep it short as much I can. So Basically up to this point I truly fell in love for the first time in ways do wish it was different I told myself I would end up in an abusive relationship and I did she physically and emotionally abusive to me now I wish I could have said I was the same and that reason everything bad that as happen was my Fault and I deserve everything but the truth is that I was taught to treat my partner as I would want to be treated. Even though I was abusive on all levels by her I never abusive her or made her feel like she was nothing because she was my everything. That ended vary badly for me and has left me broken I’m still picking up the pieces its been over two years I need to find someone I hate being single. So I told you about my past partners in short now a little about myself I am nice, kind and loving oh must to the point where people have tried to use those quality’s against me to my friends you have stood by me I treat them like family and would try and give them anything I could to help the same go’s with my family now take and Double it for my partner. Some other quality’s is that I will actually listen to you and you will feel loved like you never have been before Treated with the up most respect I will believe in you no what you want to do. there is so much more but you will have to discover that you self. What I believe in a relationship what you put into and I put 100% of time and effort into my relationship and if you are not coming to the table with 100% then why do you want an relationship it takes two people to make a relationship not good or great but the best that is what I believe in... something I believe in is 100% communication no one is perfect everyone has flews and things they want to say that they are worried about what there partner might think or they think that they won’t agree with. I know sometime its hard to say it even if its something little but I know talking about it will keep the relationship healthy and that is how you fix things not by bottling and holding things in to the point where you end up hating the other person and might go a make an mistake like cheating. If it gets to that point then the relationship because cheating really is pointless I never understand why people do that when everyone ends up getting hurt be honest to yourself and your partner. Now on to what I am looking for in you as a partner I am what you call and not limited to geek, nerd, Otaku or gamer I like fantasy, Science fiction, comics, anime/manga and even tabletop gaming. I want and I am looking for is someone who likes the same things someone who I can geek out going to conventions, movies, watching tv, waiting for a game to come out no more opposites for me I can’t do opposites anymore. I want someone can hold a Intellectual conversation by this I mean mostly for. writing and texting. I love when someone is detail when texting of writing me someone who can show me how much they are interested in me by writing more then one sentence. also the more open about things the better.one last thing and I hate when I'm messaging, texting or talking to some I am interested and they disappear for and hour or a few. I know people are busy I get that but at least tell me that your busy and that you will try and get back to me when you can please don't leave me hanging. If you leave me hanging I might stop talking to you if I feel like your reasons are not good. Also I will definitely stop talking to you if I think your not putting enough effort into the conversation getting to know each other I don't want to feel like it's just me. Besides that I am also looking for someone I am attracted to physically and sexually now before I say what I notice that I am attracted to body type wise don’t take offense… I am attracted to curvy full hourglass body type because the butt and boob ratio is the same now I haven’t been with a skinny girl that does not mean I wont be interested if you are skinny then must have butt and boob ratio and must be nice and equal. Last but not less .i am a vary affectionate and sexual guy and I have a high sex drive. sex for me and in a relationship means a lot and I want a partner who as the same drive and affection public holding hands and kissing hugging shows the strength of the relationship. Being open and learning each other sexual preferences. I will be asking sexual questions some what earlier when we start talking that way it's out the way for both of us and I know what I am looking for and I definitely encourage and want you to ask questions too be descriptive when asking and answering.i am on fetlife which is an BDSM community/dating site please do visit https://fetlife.com/users/6240675 yes I have this same bio but I added more ad the bottom please do go read that before making a decision to talk to me..
thank you you reading i know it is a long read but if you are interested after reading i hope to here from you!

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