how do ya make friends?

I don't ;-; I give off that cold vibe, as well. It's rare for someone new to come up and talk to me. I guess I make friends through friends that I already have? Mutual friends are the easiest to make.

ah, I see ~.o.)~ ~(.o.~ btw, nice timing on ze response

I used to be very shy and silent, but once I managed to overcome my fear of people, things went way better. I still don't have many friends per se, but that's because I'm very selective when it comes to calling people friends or just plain acquaintances...

I just happen to meet people. I am just myself, people don't like it, they move on. If they do, they stick around. May not have many friends, but the ones I do have are the solid for life types.

Depends on if we're talking online or IRL. Online is easy. If they don't mistake you for a creeper then it's just a matter of sharing common experiences and having their back. Offline is just about the same except I'm rather shy at first. UPDATE: I just checked out the tinychat scene. I think that might be good socialization practice. After you see someone whip out their wee wee and get banned you know you can't make a bigger jackass out of yourself.

@Talonvoren - You said it all man. I share the same opinion.

Well first you need a shovel and a large bag. Then you head over to the local cemetery and find some freshly made graves. That's when your shovel come into play. Look for some nice body parts - nothing too decayed. Finish filling your body parts bag and it's time to head home. From here it gets a little technical.