How do you guys define love?

As a narcissist to be in love to me is to be willingly sentenced to hard labor and to serve out that sentence no matter how much you think you don't deserve it.

Love isn't just understanding and trust. It's deep understanding and trust. Not just to be comfortable, but to be completely comfortable. And not just to cherish your partner, but to cherish every last bit of your partner. (Just like how I feel about Lusamine. Alas, my queen...)