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siruboo
Apr 16, 16 at 2:52pm
maybe she was a bitch, she wouldnt just be friends? that sucks tho
riolis
Apr 16, 16 at 10:26pm
Maybe when she met up with you she found out that the online you and the real you is totally a different person then what she might have thought? Not putting blame on either party, but online relationship does that sometimes. You have this unrealistic image of someone, and when you met the person IRL, its not what he or she have thought. But chances are she just lost interest, happens either way in LDR or IRL.
vivichannie
It's based on a foundation of trust, faithfulness, effort, and communication. With such a big obstacle between a couple, one need to trust the other person is being loyal to them, remain loyal to their partner, and being honest to them. A couple need to put the "60/40" rule where both parties put 60% effort in the relationship and take 40%. It means put effort to talk to each other.
setsuko
if all you do is talk...then it will probably end up boring either for both or 1 person of the rel, try to do different stuff, watch anime, movies, play games, go out for a walk together(if you have mobile data),if not just do it anyway and take pics from your walk and share, sleep together via skype or discord or w/e. in my case the sleeping thing was pretty easy cause we have 7 hours difference, im a night owl who sleeps at 6am+ and shes sleeping 12-1am tops, so i didnt have to make any adjustments in my sleeping schedule. also after some time of discovering eachother and you have to do "that" talk where you talk about what you want to do with your rel, just have fun? just for a few months? you actually wanna live together? <- which is my case, and after you both decide what you want to do, you have to set goals and arm yourself with a ton of patience. you cant really.."make" it last long, if the person gets bored of you, then there isnt really anything you can do, except proposing doing new thing. in my case ive been around 1.5year together and weve met twice, thrice in this august. i can say that.., the meeting is pretty much the reward for both persons work. if something is off while youre sepparated there arent many chances it gets fixed once you meet. if youd like me to add something else, ask me, id be glad to help
sakra14
O////////////O...oh setsuko <3
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