Doesn't it grind your gears?

Unrealistic expectations perhaps. Terrance seemed to think he was going to be showered with hookup requests as soon as he joined, oh well. As for the others, maybe they looked around and didn't think there was much of anything here for the same reason. No real loss IMO.

I only intoduced myself a few weeks after joining the site last month but some people just might think its not worth staying

You are right Mikorin I will do it too but i don't know when :D If I continue to stay more than a month then I will.

People don't seem to like reaching out and talking to someone when they're new. At least that's what it seems like to me. Most of the time I've held a conversation with anyone from here was because I reached out first, and that's what the people who introduce themselves here need to do. It's been like 3 days since I've talked to anyone outside the forum though, so idk lol.

I'm just saying, they're not even giving it a chance. If you're not ready to socialize, why in blue blazes would you register on a "dating site"? Pretty faces alone don't make interesting people.