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How do you talk to girls?

yaasshat
It's not talking that's the issue. It's not even talking to women that's the issue. Confidence, fake it until you make it. Also, stop thinking so much, just talk about the weather if you must and work from there. Confidence is comforting and sexy. Be assertive, yet not over bearing. Be kind, but not a door mat or wall flower. Be friendly, but not awkward or creepy. Being human is complicated and yet oh so simple if you don't over think.
soraphantomhive
What everyone else said
nikita_13
Ask her if she considers herself Konota or Tomoko.
torric
Mar 14, 15 at 11:14am
Here's a couple ways - both of which are explained in hilarious pictures!: http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/dad-how-do-i-talk-to-girls.jpg http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/whenver-i-try-to-talk-to-girls-do-you-like-stuff.jpg
nikita_13
Torric wins /thread
takashi_orihara_
I would have to agree with nikita http://fc06.deviantart.net/fs25/f/2008/034/3/8/Konata___Thumbs_Up_by_Nora_niichan.png
applecaeks
I'm gonna assume the question is asking how do I talk with people I'm interested in? Cause if not, then I just talk like a normal human being to other human beings. However, with people I'm interested in, tis a entirely different story. I've stuttered, stared blankly, said the dumbest shit you can imagine, just creepy as hell mannerisms. Good ol' puberty days. Then I learned how to flirt and be as charming as possible. Worked insanely well, but later on I realized you gotta just have normal conversations. Cause that's what you'll be doing with your potential S/O for the rest of your life.
reisudo
Mar 15, 15 at 12:26pm
Just talk to them, easy... Find something in common to where you can talk about. =P
key17
Mar 15, 15 at 12:46pm
Open the mouthy device, expulse air through lungs, profit.
derpz
Mar 15, 15 at 2:13pm
i may be a bit repetitive,.. but i think, indeed just be yourself, in a way that u should not be aware that "ermgegerd im talking with a gurl", girls arent shiny magical creatures, they are just as you, creatures of flesh and blood, they think the same stuff as you and besides some biological differences they are exactly the same, alot of guys seem to lack confidence to put themself on the same level as girls maybe? you dont need to worry about how they feel about you, u need to worry about how you feel about yourself, it gives a totally different air of confidence around you. and also makes girls more comfortable when they are around you :) my personal opinion is that sometimes when boys ( cant speak for the girls sorry) are lonely for too long they tend to overreact and overdo themself for the girl, like trying a bit too hard, you dont need to glorify girls too much in your life, i think girls think thats a bit akward and it actually creates a bigger distance between you guys ^^ DerpZ out
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