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gtorocks
Is a matter of preference. In your case, the friend you talk about seek a better companion. Once you stop growing, they don't see you as their equal. Hard to say it to you but this is how life are. If you stay in the same place and not moving into next level people will not care about you. Think of it as you are a level 10 and your friends are level 30. They will find it boring to grind the same monster as you. My advice for you is to grow in spiritually and mentally that way you can find your answers.
riyuzaki
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jas
Dec 20, 14 at 6:32pm
Yeah, it's dumb. People will reject you for that %10 percent difference in interests. Or, maybe they're too much like you and reject you on some of your own criteria. I'm probably guilty of that. The thing to remember is that friends and acquaintances have a point where they cannot go with you. I test the waters with some of my interests and personal background and see how people react. If I get static I leave it alone and note where their "stopping" point is. With the people you're talking about I'd say ditch them and make opportunities to meet new folks. You gave them a shot: they refused. Sucks to be them!
neko_prince
How do i ditch the people i hang around already? They are the only people i can talk to face to face even if they dont care
riyuzaki
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jas
Dec 20, 14 at 7:08pm
Well, you can start by detaching your emotions for them. It's OK to be around them and do interesting things. Just accept that they have their "stopping" points with you and cannot accept any more. Right now you are hurting yourself with emotions they don't deserve. Get them out of your personal space even if not the physical. Also, politely stop doing favors for them if they are using you.
tashina_karamomo
*Hugs* :3 There's nothing wrong with you. From what you're telling about yourself: You're nice, sweet, helpful and caring. Even funny, you said so yourself. Honestly, there should be more friends out there in the world like you. But I don't think they hate you. From one sweetie to another, I've felt like that on one or more occasions. Some people are just selfish. They don't like to help. or they don't know how to help you and don't want to risk being embarrassed and say that they don't know how to help. It's not you, it could be them. If you know that they don't help you after you ask help, and they are usually the ones who ask you for help the most, just dont help them. I'm sure no one is turning on such a sweet person like you and i'm sure there's no hating going on. So don't worry. :3
pjsmename
Neko_prince; first off, it's not you that is the issue in your scenario. It is your so-called "friends." You need to find better people to be around, but before that, you need to learn and come to grips with the fact that you're not the one in the wrong. Let me say this pretty bluntly; if you keep acting like no one likes you, or doesn't care to be around you; you'll create those people who don't. No one wants to be near someone who does nothing but complain left and right about people not liking them. As well, it does not have to be them that does the approaching, you may find it worthwhile to talk to someone yourself. Anyways, that is my intake on the situation. Good luck mate!| P.S. I am friendly and I like to talk to people, how about you and I become friends.
neko_prince
Thank you everyone And thanks for the hug @tashina_karamomo
riyuzaki
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