Have you considered...?

You need to ask yourself, what are you here for? If trying to be friend with same interest or seeking for relationship. Find out what is your reason for joining. Another I want to point out people here are not to entertain you and you either find it dull or good. I sometimes feel people don't really talk about anime, and usually trolls or give a basic opinion but we don't have control over them. Make your vow clear so many can hear your voice. We don't know anything about you. I know I'm not good at drawing but I think your drawing is good but I feel you don't care about it that much after you done drawing. Maybe is just me think that but I never see you in the forum and some post maybe is lost but we can do nothing about it. Rather prying over something that people don't care, will only upset yourself. Try not to get too attach. Sorry if my words are too hard for you to understand because of my grammar issue. To me you look average, I don't see you have problem but, you seems insecure or find life boring. We all do at some point but nothing we can do about it. Only time can tell.

That sounds more like you took a break. Unless you really are still gone. Then how is it you're talking to me. Are you a ghost? Are you haunting me?

Guess she didn't like my advice :p What's with some people these days? Conversation is always a two way street. You can't be passive and annoyed and have an enjoyable discussion.

*Whoops, I guess she already left. Ignooooooore me~* I guess my insight might not be all that helpful seeing as I only signed up for this site a short while ago... But I've had the same issues with other sites so I can relate in a sense. If you really feel you don't belong here and it makes you unhappy to stay, then I say you should leave and find something else that makes you happy. I don't think anyone should force themselves to do something that they really don't get much out of unless completely necessary. From what I've seen, this site is pretty casual. People kind of come and go as they please so I can see how it can be difficult to make friends quickly. If you do choose to stay, I think Jas has given some very good advice. Showing an interest in others and asking them questions is a good way to get to know people and make friends. I know small talk can be a bit difficult sometimes... So if you're stuck on something to ask someone you can always go with something funny. I remember my RA this year came up with a really bizarre ice breaker question along the lines of, "Do you fold or crinkle your toilet paper?" It was the most bizarre question I had ever been asked, but it definitely got people laughing and talking. Most people appreciate a sense of humor. Either way, the decision to stay is up to you. I like meeting new people and I would not mind getting to know you, however I will leave that up to you.

See, what pikes my interest is that she disappeared just mere hours after posting this. I understand that relating to people online can be a difficult thing, but if you don't actually give it a shot, you're not really in a position to complain. If you want to get yourself known, then do stuff. It's literally that simple. And, well, if afterwards, you still don't feel like you belong in here or anywhere else for that matter, then don't force yourself and leave.

@Animefood lol!! yeah you might as well. I don't know for sure if she left, but her profile page isn't available so I'm guessing she left. Unless she creeping and just spying on us from above... Then again, Loli-chan for example, tends to appear and disappear at will so who really knows...

The person should have just messaged random people's profiles. Posting on the forums doesnt really get you anywhere, you need to message people and get on skype or talk on the phone :O