FriendZone by the girl you like

Look at Saya spittin fire! #Blazeitup Anyway, on a more serious note, it's true, we are all guilty of friendzoning people at times. I'm not sure what the motivations could be for women, as I'm sure genders will have different reasons, but some do overlap. Maybe she just doesn't feel that way about you. I've had girls tell me before they thought I was good looking, but didn't see themselves in a relationship with me. There are lots of different factors, personal tastes, that it's hard to get a good reading on this stuff.

You can't put a gun to someone's head and make them like you. Everyone has standards (including myself) no matter how some may try to downplay it. The only thing I can suggest is use the experience to motivate yourself. If you're overweight, start exercising more and eating better. If you're very shy and/or introverted, start challenging yourself to put yourself in more social situations and actually be apart of them instead of a wallflower. It's obviously easier said than done, but at worst it will make you feel better about yourself if you make those needed changes.

I see hmm... now I get the feel that maybe im not relationship worthy because of this. I have been friendzone most all my life and I sit an think about what I did wrong.

@Cecil Umm... I kinda already know that type of stuff. I kno better to do anything like that.

@Koro Getting friendzoned a lot doesn't necessarily mean you've done something wrong. It also doesn't mean you're not relationship worthy in general. Things just happen, and people do change their minds. It's possible some of those girls that friendzoned you may end up liking you later on. Life is filled with possibilities, you just have to keep your eyes peeled for them, and pounce when they come up

@Koro my post wasn't specifically directed at you, but the male otaku populace in general. We've all been friend zoned at one time or another. Myself more times than I'd like to count. My post was directed at those who complain about it and then don't do anything to address the things that can contribute to it.