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How to get otaku girl?

joemama711
I'm still waiting for that Alephy onlyfans link @a1ephy
a1ephy
Apr 17, 22 at 4:01pm
I'm still waiting for ur giant titties
joemama711
XD one day
cur_lypav
Didn't see as the "femboy type" but hey I mean, if you're into the female shape, but like men better, that'd make you a good husbando for someone
chocopyro
Step 1: Know their migratory habits. Otaku are more often than not, Solitary creatures. Extroverts may exist among us, but some of them get as much shit for their interests as the rest of us, so you won't find them in the wilds flexing it. (Unless you are my friend Tony, but he knows how to sell anime to normies.) Your best bet is to go to where the nerds go. Get into Larping, go to anime cons, look for local HVZ chapters. Otaku need something more than what the rest of the world offers. So anywhere where you could enrich your life with just a pinch of fiction is a good place to start. Step 2: Establish contact. Your first aim should be to make friends, not babies. Temper your eagerness, don't get too excited, and make friends all over. Every girlfriend I've ever head, I met through a friend. Therefore, if your dating pool has dried up, make new friends. Forge new contacts. Step 3: Humanize her bro! She may not be a normy, but she is not going to go down on you just because she cosplays one of your waifus. Otaku have the same social needs as other humans, just with 10x the autism. You may get the mistake of thinking that you are going to find a girl who perfectly exhibits all the characteristics as your seiso moe tsundere waifu. But let's get our expectations calibrated. Odds are, if you are looking for a girl with that many psychological red flags, she's likely to be as detached from reality as you are. And you? You are NOT man enough to be her husbando. Not unless you know how to weaponize your cringe. And that takes years of training. Compartmentalize a little. Set your preference in anime girls apart from your preference in real girls. Learn to appreciate what they have to offer. Otaku girls may blend the lines a little. But if you see them as an anime girl and not a real one, you've just taken your first step toward dehumanizing her. Don't be that guy. Stay away from narcissists, manipulators, and sociopaths. You don't need extreme personalities to feel good about yourself. Likewise, don't be any of those either. Step 4: Get used to liberal filters. Otaku women are in high demand in the Otaku dating market. There's only a handful of girls here, but if you go to Tumbler, they have such an abundance of girls, many androgynous folk step in to play the role. And they're better at it than you are, because they know what a woman wants. Here's the truth about liberal culture. It's a filter. They put up with so many assholes, creepers, and THOT hunting incels trying to guilt, manipulate, harass, and force them to be this way or that way, that eventually they decided "Fuck it, I'm tired of being treated like a 'woman.' I'm gonna dye my hair blue, sculpt it into a fish fin with enough hair gel to build a continent out of it, get a lip piercing, and be me. And while I'm at it, you shall address me as Shogun! Fuck all!" (Yeah, we did this to them. Nonbinary used to be called 3rd gender, and they didn't add the extra pronouns back then. It keeps getting worse and worse, because you keep fighting back.) Learn how to read the language, navigate the red tape, and be tolerant (If not downright accepting) of life choices. Because if you can do all that, its a signal. You took time out of your life to make room for the fish fin shogun. Remember. Fish Fin Shogun may have given up on men, and you are there to make friends, not babies. Because it just so happens to turn out that Fish Fin Shogun actually has a really cute sister. And because you have taken the time to cross the barriers of the extremists on the frontiers of gender norms, you learned what kind of people she likes. Step 5: Don't be a simp. Don't be an adversary. So you know and understand what a Sapiosexual is, and you've learned many new hobbies of hers. Be earnest. Don't manipulate her into thinking that dating you is good for her. Get to know her. Find out if she's right for you first. There's different layers of attraction. Physical attraction, mental attraction and sexual attraction. Everyone has differing needs when it comes to this. Be honest about your intent, and try get to know her. Ask her to meet every once in a while for some low stakes fun at the arcade, or whatever. Don't be Russia x Ukraine. Respect her sovereignty. You do that, and feminism should make way more sense. Step 6: Gauge her parameters: Real humans are not as easy to read as a social link, or heart meter, or whatever game GUI might indicate it. Hell, this isn't even something that can be really quantified. But affection can be discerned by understanding how a person moves. Where their eyes are when they say certain things. Where their hand placement is, or what kind of steps they take when waking with you. Human body language has its tells, and only by truly knowing someone will you understand when they start to build affection or attraction towards you. Move with them. And when you feel she is comfortable with the idea, ask her on a real date. If you've been honest about your motives, this shouldn't be an earth shattering surprise. You're on your own from there. Everyone is built differently, but hopefully this helps.
chocopyro
I HATE not having Indents.
sobo275
Apr 17, 22 at 9:09pm
@burninghalo it's all yours
kawaii_kit
Apr 17, 22 at 11:38pm
What is with all these comment!? I’m literally dying right now because of the confusion and nothing being taken seriously XD
bob_loblaw
Raise your hand if you read Choco's post past the word "habit" xD
wik
Apr 18, 22 at 1:54am
Getting an otaku girl is like winning the lottery. You definitely have a chance, but you're more likely to get hit by lightning. Downgrade to an introvert instead that can tolerate your otaku tendencies, that's a much higher chance. Maybe you can convince them to like an anime or two xD
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