Need love advice!

I don't know much but I would go out on Partys, in Clubs just get around People. Maybe speed dating I mean what could go wrong. Exapt you are as ugly as me than I would think that you fucked up.

If you're looking for love, clubs, bars, pubs or strip clubs are terrible ideas. The kind of people that goes there probably isn't interested on the same quality relationship you're thinking about.

Hint to the wise.. DO NOT get desperate for love. It’s a rabbit hole of hell. I have to relearn that all over again.. and try to recollect myself.

I never understood the spark thing. Do it casually, get to know the person. As you get to know them you will learn if there are things about them you love or you hate. With the things you hate, you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, something worth investing time on changing, or if it's a no go. As long as I've dated, I've never experience a magical spark and I don't believe it exists.

The magical spark it's usually just a hormonal reaction asking you to mate with the person ASAP You gotta be comfortable with someone on a friendship basis before you can jump to anything else, if you don't have much experience with friendships this is a good way to start from... But like... Seriously, have an actual friend, not just someone you're being nice to to expect some nudes back, not saying you do, just saying you mustn't. For the actual dating scene, follow my advice, get some dating apps, practice your strong points and charms, figure out what you want short term and what you want long term, talk to as many gals as you can to build up your confidence and social skills, so that when you find a high quality woman that you want to give it a serious effort to, you know what to do and how to present yourself as a collected, serious and mature individual, not a kid who doesn't knows anything about anything