Communication

Well me and her met here actually where the two of us started getting to know one another and it showed that we had common interests.... But sadly when we started exchanging emails it became the factor of me having to try and contact her. Seriously I understand that one needs money to live and one has to make revenue in order to make sure that once position is met but seriously it sucks the fact that I feel like I'm the only one trying to communicate AKA trying to make contact with her. And the first day she talked to me a little bit before she has to go to work or she was already at work but then she ended up calling off our meeting AKA a date because she got sick from not wearing a coat out in the rain (which was a lie because it wasn't raining on Friday that just passed) and now she is saying that I'm making her feel uncomfortable with the fact that I am trying to talk to her when she isn't even ready for a relationship and this is what she wanted it in the first place...

Hate to break it to you but she's not interested in what you are trying for. I always tell my boys to move on if the girl's not interested at all. Hope you can get over this quickly though!

I hope so too because right now it just does not feel right has it's like hoping for me to wait on till she is already having everything that she needs to live on her own.... It doesn't sound healthy and it wouldn't look healthy either.

You got this bro. Just focus on stuff that needs to be done now. If she really is just thinking that this is not the right time then hey it might be for later when the timing is right. For now focus on yourself and what you need to do.

first off I'm going to try not to correct you on the last thing that you said but I feel like there might not be a chance but at the same time there might be a chance but I'm just going to give her time to herself and just see what happens. because if it really is meant to be then she will contact me and see what she wants to do but besides that I am done trying to chase after her.

Just a heads up.... Being cold does not give you a cold. In fact, you're more likely to get sick in the cold BECAUSE you and everyone else are trying to stay warm inside, together. One cough or sneeze now becomes an issue in a grouo that's confined. Also, never let yourself be strung along. It sucks to never truly know intent, but by asking her, you take the wondering out. If you just sit and wait, that can bite you, too. Just ask her what her intentions are, it really is that simple. If she wants to be with you, she will tell you as much and if not, you just saved yourself a lot of time and emotional pain.

She didn't really tell me what she really wants from me as she kind of Dodge the question because seriously she didn't want to tell me what was actually going on because all she told me was she was working......

She told me that she wants to become independent she wants to take things slow but the way that she considers slow is not really communicating and not really showing me that she wants a relationship as she is morally wanting to work. She told me that she is starting to work but she never told me that she was extremely over-the-top busy where she is working from day and night with no time. Seriously.... All I can do is wait and see what happens because I am not looking to cause any problems with anybody or jump to conclusions but it just seems like she does not want to be in a relationship.