Shy???

I'm definitely more on the 'social introvert'-spectrum as explained by the second video. All of the girls who crushed on me in the past would say that they liked how 'cool and mysterious' I was. I mean the cool part was true but the mysterious part was mostly because I didn't care enough for their company to open up to them like that yet. :u

Anxious introvert(overthinking;self-doubt;low self-esteem)→Thinking introvert(emotionally conservative;serious;detached) Having traits of both makes me seem very unapproachable(at least to most people;traditioanlly females are regarded to be more emotional expressive and less reserved than males, introverted females included).It is true that getting to know me is not very easy,I don't seek comfort from 95% of people habitually. https://wx2.sinaimg.cn/mw690/87d788b2gy1fw54tp3c2aj20ac07641b.jpg

Trying to get the interest of girls while you're shy really fucking sucks - I can tell you that for a fact from my really awkward teen years. Once you find the confidence in yourself and you can be honest with who you are to yourself and others, what your intentions are, etc then it's great! People will appreciate you a lot more for that expression of openness and honesty and you'll attract a lot more people because of that - I always ask my female friends about this and their answer is universally the same; confidence is sexy! Always happy to exercise that as much as I want o/