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Why are men only attracted to the bubbly and sweet personality?

deadlykaos
Thats not all men me personally i would like a shy and quiet girl but i think the draw of a bubbly personality is that its someone you dont have to work to keep entertained were as other types of personalities need more attention
oneman
I don't mind bubbly personalities, but it must be nuanced. If overdone, it ruins the personality for me, and seems fake af. If a girl seems too plasticky and fake, I begin tuning them out, and not looking at them as a person, and more like a doll. I'd rather avoid that, so shy, quiet yet bright in personality is more preferable. As well as responsible enough to hold me accountable when necessary. I need sunshine within my personal rainy world, and fake personalities just sink in it. I happen to deal with emotional malice towards others, and I see most with fake personalities not as a person, but as an "enemy". I kinda grew up with a feminazi mother. Crazy enough to turn most males away from women. So instead of simply going solo, I decided I am fine with dating a woman under specific emotional conditions. Sorry...
muffster
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solid_snake95
I want big booty thats all. Simple as that. xD
dazai_osamu
I guess I'm a man that kinda fits the question, though I like clumsy aswell, to me it's simply cute. I feel like I want to protect it, though I imagine this goes back to a old male human trait of protecting young females from danger, since bubbly and sweet gives a young aura and instincts make you protect it. But that's just me everyone is different. An extra point is that we don't like it all the time, just at appropriate times :) otherwise it can get really boring without a good interesting conversation and connection but again thats just me.
tomaru
Im a man and I like girls are confident and comfortable with themselves. I dont like girls that are really bubbly and energetic, it is annoying to me. I like girls that are friendly and have a lot in common with me. So a girl can be distant and thoughtful and I will like her but she has to be affectionate enough to keep a healthy relationship. Tsundere girls are in anime often and many guys like tsundere. They are not sweet. I would rather have a tsundere that is mean but likes me than a sweet girl that s always nice. Sweet bubbly girls may get attention becaus they are friendly and people think they will be friends with them
ginja
Why bubbly and sweet do seem nice, I find it also good if a girl was loud and rude for the sake of not seeming fake. It just really depends on the girls who are bubbly and sweet, to what extent they are bubbly and sweet. Also depends on the guys cause not every guy will be looking for the same type of girl regardless if that’s the assumption or not.
dakoya
It's psychology dear watson. Most people are attracted to said personality b/c it causes a positive reaction in the human hormones, that drive an attractive response. Of course b/c we are not all the same, this doesn't affect everyone, but for most people it's true. That's why you always hear those service managers telling their employees to look happy and have a smile on their face. Generally, you'd want to talk to someone who has a positive outlook than not. Also history and the media play a big part. Historically people who do not have a bubbly personality are dangerous (psycopaths, killers, kidnappers, etc...), plus the media has portrayed these stereotypes as such. Thus the human mind has been molded by society over the years to do as such. *Warning* These are of course just my quick thoughts on the matter.
reinhardt76
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hakutaku
Most are/were attracted to that type.Moreover many girls are attracted to guys who have a sweet and bubbly personality. Because sweet and bubbly people are "fun" to talk to, they may be good conversationalists who have a general sense of humor, they are caring or pretend to be caring, also sweet talks is just a piece of cake to them In a word, they satisfy ordinary people's emotional needs.People get infactuated quickly.
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