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Girls only like jerks (stop using this excuse, grow a pair and read on)

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mickkito

Infact I just wrote this after I had a date tonight, and she's pretty cool and Beautiful.

We're also meeting up tomorrow for Sushi!

Remember guys, The phone is for setting dates only! Get to know her or communicate with her face-to-face.

mickkito

Oh, and I'm kinda tipsied.

mickkito

Truthfully, I don't really mind if older women wanna pursue younger guys, But I do think of that as the same way as I see older men doing the same, it seems as if you're holding onto your youth that's not there anymore and not actually living your life by the life stage your currently at, getting older isn't bad, it's healthy, trying to be young when the time has passed is though.

vanessa86
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Jul 22, 17 at 3:18am
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mickkito

Then that isn't confidence, are you sure you know what confidence means? Sounds like arrogant guys to me, and the guys you've described are typically guys I can commend.(The nice guys you stated.) Infact they sound confident, You sounded deluded and or ignorant to the definition of true confidence, Though on the other point; I never said you went for younger guys, I was more-so addressing the "women your age" you stated who do so.

axlex

Personally I feel that too many people are putting wanting to be in a relationship as too high of a priority.

Best thing to do is to be who you want to be. Sure it sounds selfish but before thinking about getting involved with someone else, you need to think of you first. If you're happy with you, whether you get into a relationship or not should not need to complete who you are, only add to each other.

vanessa86
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Jul 22, 17 at 3:28am
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axlex

@Fox Queen

Easily. If you can love yourself, you can find it much easier to appreciate the things life gives you. Loving yourself inspires greater confidence in yourself which in turn makes you a more positive person, positive attracts positive. And sometimes opposites attract even.

There are cases for both unhappy people and happy people finding someone. It really is up to the individuals themselves. Relationships are always a gamble no matter what kind of outlook you have. So why not start with making sure that you are happy with yourself and improve your own life? That way if relationships don't work, you bounce back much easier from the loss.

Edit:

You are talking to one of said unconfident people.

vanessa86
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Jul 22, 17 at 3:47am
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axlex

Woah, woah, woah. Slow down there. When did this turn into something about winning? And how am I bullying anyone? I feel we're moving in two different directions.

Everyone is different. But it has been proven time and time again that people who can love themselves tend to have a better appreciation for things. Not to mention is scientifically proven to boost your health and life as a whole. Positivity is good.

Everyone has their own ways of thinking and living. That's why the best thing to do first is to enjoy who you are. If you can do that, you can live your life as a much healthier person.

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