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momoichi
Jul 22, 17 at 7:57pm
and yet im still alone nyaro ;w; aslong as 2d characters stay 2d, ill never stop bitching not gonna lie, i had a dic pic collection of the guys on a discord server i dont mind getting them, just giving them is off the table
kuro7respect
@Lamby That's what happens if you're a female in the internet, guys sending you a couple of nudes to get you send them a nude picture of you. The thirst is really real If you're a model of any sorts, they'll be even more thirsty. There's already thirsty men, even in MaiOtaku.
thatguytony
Like most people said, it's putting yourself out there. But at the same time, don't settle. Trust me, if you actually want a good relationship find someone you can feel comfortable with, have similar interests (or different ones you are willing to try) and most importantly make sure they have your best interests in mind
nyaro
Jul 22, 17 at 9:24pm
I am gay for everyone.
thatguytony
And I love you random citizen
thatguytony
Seriously never spoken with you before, lol... Hi
neet_one
Jul 22, 17 at 10:10pm
@Lamby, yeah I agree it'd be great if match maters were a thing still, but unfortunately everyone has a "every man for themselfs" mentality these days. I've tried helping people out where I could, but sometimes there's only so much you can do. @ouma_adam, people think it's weird because as others have mentioned everyone's got ADD or something these days and want instant results, even if it comes with a high risk of those results being very regrettable. A person's true nature and intention will always surface with time, yet people just don't seem to understand or care about that.
vanessa86
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neet_one
Jul 22, 17 at 11:16pm
I get the age thing Fox Queen, but that just seems like all the more reason not to deal with dating random people who will likely be a waste of time. I bought this topic up because I just recently spent two months getting to know someone very well. Our messages got longer and longer all the time, eventually we were sending each other huge text walls because we just had that much to talk about. Then one day she tells me she decided to start dating a guy that she just met two days before, they started to become very distant after that and now it's been weeks since we last spoke. Had stuff like that happen with people from this site too a few times. One example is with this "Athina" person who I was also able to talk endlessly with (when they were online anyway) but because of time zone issues I'd often have to stay up extremely late every night (it was exhausting but worth it). We got to the point where she wanted to be boyfriend/girlfriend which was fine by me, but then a week latter she drops all contact with me while ignoring my attempts to contact her. Haven't heard from her since. I assume they probably met someone offline. Another from MO was someone who went by Akanie/黒夜かがり. Couple months of regular conversation and getting along great, with plans to meet up once they had the free time. But we never made it to the day we planned to meet. They suddenly decided I wasn't what they were looking for and hooked up with someone else from MO. Can't say I blame em, but it would have been nice if they didn't lead me on or waste my time like that. Even put some time and money into fixing up a psp I was gonna give them when we met, that I ended up sending to a friend instead. There were two others I had stuff like this happen with from MO also but I forget the names they used here. One who was crazy about me, lived near here, and really wanted to meet as soon as possible, then one day tells me they fucked some random dude. I didn't get upset at them since we were never actually dating, but we didn't really talk much after that. The other again I got to know very well but found them growing very distant all of a sudden. Sure enough they got a boyfriend and lost interest in talking to me. I know these are my own fault for not being more assertive and wanting to take things slow instead. I still wouldn't want to trow myself at random girls and hope for the best, that's just not me. I did give that a shot at the last con I went to by trying to start conversations with random people, but I found it hard to get more than a few words out of anyone while at the same time getting the impression I was being a bother. I have no clue how normals do it. I'd like find like minded people, get to know them, get along, and be on friendly terms while letting whatever happens happen naturally. That just isn't possible in these modern times unfortunately unless it's someone from school/work you're around a lot anyway. Maybe if you live in a small town where you don't have to worry about countless guys 'beating you to the punch' as it were. Seems impossible to form a natural relationship with anyone otherwise.
vanessa86
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