why is it harder for otaku's

what @a1ephy is trying to say is that regardless of anyones background, interests/hobbies, shy, or if they are introverted or extroverted, you still need to put the effort into meeting people in general.

Finding weeb friends irl isnt really hard at all for me. Finding a weeb thats date worthy on the other hand.. a bit harder lmao. Maybe im just picky

I mean, you can always introduce someone into your fandom. Slowly, of course. You might just be surprised. It's the same with the other person, you'll find things that you like that maybe you didn't try before.