Guys please be gentlemen

Well, some guys just don't have much tact when it comes to dating or trying to get to know someone, mainly due to lack of experience when it comes to this sort of thing. There are definitely a lot of cute girls on here, but I'll be lucky if even one or two of them live even a state away! XD

Yea is sad to hear that. And I agree with ya Cecil Some very Kawaii Girls on this site but finding one close to you that might actual take an interest is prolly like 1 in a million.. but still great to make some new friends male or Female. I just try to be nice to everyone. Can never have too many friends, am I right?

Ive seen this happen a few times. Its not nice Best thing for girls to do is hide their email from showing on their info. You could just copypaste that into Facebook and do a search from there. I imagine thats where some of the harassment comes from (just because I know about that btw doesnt mean I do it...Im not a fail and know how to give people privacy). If you do choose to display other contact information for outside the site, do it at your own risk as there will be assholes out there that will take advantage of it! While the majority of us are nice people on here, theres always going to be the ones that arent, sadly thats part of life. I wish it didnt drive people away though as Ive had good conversations with people then theyve just vanished midway through, never to return. This makes me sad... Perhaps girls coming under abuse should have a name and shame thread if talks to defuse the situation with whoevers causing them trouble break down or they persist too much? God I hope I dont find myself on that list....I try to be as nice as I can... -_-

ya definately not cool to be a d bag on here...theres enough of those irl...especially in the bar scene and other dating and social avenues..just cause it's the internet doesn't mean someone can live accountability free here...if someone is looking for an actual meaningful relationship being ungentlemanly right out the gate is just idiotic...if i did anything like that i would expect to be punched in the nether-regions with a stapler...swingline....red...period