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hakutaku
Toxic people usually aren’t aware they are toxic ;), helping people with anxiety issues makes them believe they are probably nicest ppl one could come across (๑✦ˑ̫✦)
sparkis
Apr 06, 20 at 2:30am
Sorry for my narrow understading but how can someone who wants and tries to help can be considered toxic
swadian
@Sparkle I'll put it into super simple terms. Imagine, that a person has a problem eating grapes and it's incredibly difficult for said person to speak about it. Then, someone comes in claiming to know how to help someone to start eating grapes, he starts getting pretty intense saying all kinds of things about pears, oranges, apples, but you already know those fruits, and those fruits aren't grapes which is what you're interested on fixing, so you try to take a step back and thank him for the support while it's still early, because now you're starting to worry about those fruits and maybe even start to hate them as well, then, this person, believing that what he talked about were grapes, keeps enforcing his beliefs, ideas and circumstances, eventually even trying to get something out of you for "helping you" on how to eat grapes, but now, the truth is that you actually hate apples, oranges, pears and grapes and feel beyond shit. That's the gist of it, now change fruits with mental issues and boom
sparkis
Apr 06, 20 at 3:13am
So pretty much when a person that "tries" to help actually just completely misses the actual problem and starts to get into completely unrelated things that might even go as far as getting into someones personal life and in return it makes the condition even worse.
swadian
And the cherry on the top would be, that they demand something in return for their invaluable "help and expertise" on the topic OR try to take advantage of the vulnerable person who's even more messed up now
sparkis
Apr 06, 20 at 3:22am
Never had any personal experience with this kind of people so It was a little difficult for me to understand.
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momoichi
Apr 12, 20 at 4:24am
i liked 4kidz if it wasnt for them translating all those anime most of us likely never would have gotten into anime or atleast not at such a young age while sure, the dubbed were comically aids and they white washed and similified the shit out of it, in turn they also gave us kool new theme songs you like the original pokemon theme song "i wanna be the very best"? is that song a part of your childhood? you can thank 4kidz for producing new op's for their anime personally i loved the season one one piece op "i wanna be king of the pirates!" and if you did too you can, again, thank 4kidz for that 4kidz wasnt that bad and i thank them for my awesome anime filled childhood funimation can eat a dick
momoichi
Apr 12, 20 at 8:01am
amai mask arch > garou arch
purpleprince
Apr 12, 20 at 8:37am
Coronavirus is resulting in a lot of beneficial changes and I think after it's all over, the world will have improved because of it. It's exposing the corruption, lies, and hypocrisy in the U.S. and Chinese govts to even more people who demand change, anti-vaxxers will hopefully go extinct for a while, and let's be real, we needed a culling of the herd. Most importantly, I think people may finally realize that minimum wage workers who are all "essential" deserve a living wage.
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