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hell_hound7
Sep 08, 21 at 6:25am
You know everytime i think about putting myself out there and making a post on a dating platform about looking for a gf. I just read some of the stuff the women there will post, and it makes me think. Wow these women are literal garbage, why would i ever wanna post here looking for love? Im just gonna get the same people "looking for friends" or complaining about how the most perfect guy they ever met blocked them so now they are back on here again. Like holy shit am i just misogynist? Or are these women literally just the worst of the worst? Like who tf says that? I found my perfect guy and he dumped me so now im here. Like wtf? Best way to introduce yourself. Then to top it off the high expectations and stabdards for basically bottom of the barrel wimen with zero personality or conversational skills like bruh im just gonna be a bachelor and adopt whenever im ready to actually start a family of my own.
chattchristian
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No effort no reward. Look at my attached image. It's not perfect but it gets the point across and the beauty is the time scale would be consistent no matter what occurs because time doesn't stop - the more effective you are at bringing forward your best, the quicker the results will come and that's from trial, error and trying again. The opposite is also true. This is true in dating and life in general. If you find a baseline of happiness and contentment, congratulations, you've overcome the valley and ascended the mountain.
hell_hound7
Sep 08, 21 at 9:09am
I dont think my happiness is the issue XD i mean i dont NEED a gf. i can basically do all the things i would if i had one. To include one night stands and stuff. Granted there wouldnt be any emotional connections because thats just not possible. But basically i dont need one, but i want one if that makes sense. My biggest problem isnt so much what i am doing wrong besides idk picking the wrong women maybe. I just cant find a girl who isnt a cheater or just has such a fucked up living situation. No i dont wanna date a girl who lives with her ex boyfriend, no i dont want a girl who wants me to convert religions for her, no i dont want to date someone who has super strict and racist parents. My vetting process for the girls i dont wanna date come directly from the girls i did date. Its almost like i find a new problem to be like yeah im not doing that ever again.
arc
Arc @arc commented on Vent
Sep 09, 21 at 5:29pm
I don't understand how some people are so STUPID they don't understand they are running out of gas and stop in the MIDDLE of the road, causing me to lose 30 minutes out of my day because they blocked half the lanes of traffic. How about you PULL OFF THE ROAD when your dumbass runs out of gas? If that's not possible, better to just open your car door and throw yourself into oncoming traffic. This is like the 3rd time this month somebody has done this. http://images1.memedroid.com/images/UPLOADED14/507075416df83.jpeg
reisenpai66
Rei @reisenpai66 commented on Vent
Sep 11, 21 at 3:21pm
Coming on to any kind of dating service or social platform and posting half-naked pics of your self in hopes of finding a decent person is funny. Not only are you not gonna find a decent man, but no self respecting guy is looking for girls quick to show skin, and you're not gonna find anything more than a quick hookup. Its quite the red flag. Maybe im just too old.
solid_snake95
Sep 11, 21 at 4:40pm
Yeah I just deleted all that. I don't want it up forever just long enough to feel like someone at least read it and understood what I meant.
yaasshat
yaasshat @yaasshat commented on Vent
Sep 11, 21 at 4:43pm
Not being mean or an ass when say this and it's all I'll say. Please look into therapy. Can't afford it? There are ways and if you'd like I can at least talk in private with ya.
hell_hound7
Sep 13, 21 at 9:06pm
Bro i cannot stand people, this is why i dont do fucking favors for people anymore. I do a favor for people and help them out and then literally have to beg for someone to help me out. This shit always pisses me off all i ask for is like 20 minutes out of someone's day for my fitness test. Like fuck this shit bro. Anyone who wants help from me now can go fuck themselves. A whole group full of people i did favors for and none of them wants to help me. You would think i learned my lesson from my deployment after they literally abandoned me with 8 armed guys who could have turned on me and attacked at any moment. I cant even ask my friends to do it for me cuz its against the rules. Man im so pissed
solid_snake95
Sep 14, 21 at 11:48am
I really need to stop getting my hopes up. I'm not desirable by anyone tbh.
xinmage
Xinpaca @xinmage commented on Vent
Sep 14, 21 at 2:25pm
@solid_snake95 Take solace that many are socially awkward or perceived in a non favorable light. It seems to be a hard lesson for many of us despite or age or current relationship that we often doubt our own capabilities. Frequently, in human nature, we forget the common hurdles in life that we all jump through. Not all are equal in status, but in our own minds we project more of our hopes and fears onto each other in an attempt to better navigate social structures. That said, the best answer for myself has been to find one thing that I personally like about myself and nurture that element like it was the very foundation of my core. In that I always have some pillar of support when things around me seem to be collapsing. Courage to face oneself lies in the belief that we can love ourself. Not in vanity, but when we are at the least desireable. When we are the most vulnerable. Can we love ourselves when no one else will? That's the question and the answer.
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