I think its funny how the topic started out with women saying they hate guys who are focused on sex, but then now agree if they aren't showing they are interested in sex they will be friend zoned lol. Colonel-jordan-mikuza you just undermined the whole gay/lesbian movement in which its not a choice just saying... Something I learned through my psychology degree that I think a lot of people who comment about things like this should learn, is all humans and human acts are of a selfish nature. Even when someone is doing something most would consider selfless they are either trying to uphold an image in society, manipulate someones ideas/feelings for them or their brain is releasing dopamine (chemical for reward and pleasure) when they do them. The latter is the closest you can get to selfless but they are still doing them to make THEMSELVES feel better. This goes for women and men. In a relationship this is the hardest thing to balance. Making sacrifices (stopping the things you don't like) in hopes of being rewarded with something that gives more pleasure (not only sex, companionship for the most part) and if all goes well will last a life time. Men from my experience sacrifice a lot more than women in a relationship this is mainly to do with our sex drive (lucky for the species). So next time you don't like something your BF does, think first how many things he has already stopped before asking for more.

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