tg_bottousai

I pretty much agree with everything that Cecil said up there ^. But I'd also like to add that you simply must understand that there may be no saving the friendship. You might have to choose between having the friendship and getting rid of his constant hints that he likes you. You are not obligated to return his feelings, and you shouldn't have to feel bad for not loving him back. But at the same time he's not obligated to completely suppress his feelings just so he can stay friends with you on your terms, and he shouldn't have to feel bad about who he has feelings for either. Please note that just because he doesn't have to continue the relationship on your terms I am NOT condoning things like stalking/being a creeper/ forcing yourself on someone.