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neeto

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toshinokyouko
toshinokyouko @toshinokyouko left a comment for neeto
Aug 09, 18 at 7:29am
Good! still having holiday and the heat is finally going away which is the best thing ^-^ How's it going on your continent? :) https://78.media.tumblr.com/d8cd0ad239c6921c0a3bcdde8180bbf2/tumblr_nvrmdaJ4YP1uis56do1_500.gif
toshinokyouko
toshinokyouko @toshinokyouko left a comment for neeto
Aug 06, 18 at 4:18am
That is good to hear! https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-wYxrQo4Y188/Us3Jj37MJkI/AAAAAAADa00/rWC6K4mONAU/w506-h284/1616.gif
toshinokyouko
toshinokyouko @toshinokyouko left a comment for neeto
Aug 05, 18 at 7:21am
Eheheh ^-^ haii Neeto how's it going? https://78.media.tumblr.com/8b97966cb33b460119a78eb1c2059128/tumblr_ojhmj6jNAD1v9fxado2_500.gif
neet_one
neeto @neet_one Never better! https://archive-media-0.nyafuu.org/c/image/1468/01/1468019479931.gif
tigerfestivals
Jul 11, 18 at 11:07pm
Hey Neet I was reading your "why're you single topic" and I read your opening post, and the part that stood out to me the most was the fact that you keep attracting women you show no interest in and women you're interested in show no interest in you. I totally can relate. While I never attract rocker/punk girls, I keep attracting hood rats, and the really pretty but really stuck up normie types that only care about social media,parties,bars,clubs etc. and think that video games anime etc. is immature and for kids. I would say that is undoubtedly one of the biggest reasons why I'm still single, furthermore my great social retardation. I'm so socially retarded it makes the issues Richard Dawkins have look like poultry. If we have nothing in common in terms of personality, interests and how we spend time, it just won't work. I never understood how other people do relationships when they're completely opposite of one another, I even tried with those who're different from me, and it never really went well. As for the girls I'm into, like you they never show interest in me. I'm assuming all those rocker/punk type girls that keep hitting on you have tattoos,piercings,shaved to the side haircuts or mohawks etc. Have you accepted that it gets more difficult as you get older? Have you accepted that hey maybe this isn't for me? Because I pretty much have. But it's also sad, because you only get one chance to live and once you die that's it, there's nothing more.(I'm an atheist so I believe in no afterlife or anything along those lines)During your one and only life, you never got a chance to get intimate with someone and you die knowing you never got that. But at the same time, I've seen some people say they regret getting into a relationship all together and that some people have changed forever and wished they never experienced love or anything, since it was great and want it to last until they die, only to have it torn from you and longing to get it back. Sorry I dropped quite alot, it was just some thoughts going through my mind is all. Take some time to digest this info before replying. Cheers!
neet_one
neeto @neet_one Yeah that seems to be a common problem pretty much everyone deals with. After all if people met other people and both liked each other, they wouldn't be on sites like this (usually). You don't seem socially retarded to me, but I'll just have to take your word for it lol. And yeah as for those types of people, I guess they just enjoy eachother's company and learning and their partners hobbies/interests. Those are one of the types that come by way a bit yeah, though I think I only met one with a mohawk so far lol. Oh and I know full well how it gets harder as you get older. People let themselves go in more ways than one and your expected to let go of standards/expectations in turn. As people get older and older they seem to care less and less and just take whatever they can get. Almost feels like a punishment for not rushing into things like everyone else. and yeah, you pretty much only get one shot at the big musical chair game that is dating/romance just to find more than half the available chairs have been ruined for one reason or another. (often times abusive douche bag ex boyfriends who treat women like disposable play things) And yeah you're right, some people get their lives ruined by it after getting involved with people who change and turn into horrible people, or were nasty from the get go but good at hiding it. I've got a friend who regrets even falling in love because he got engaged to a women who died in a car crash, and that messed him up pretty bad. Now he refuses to get involved with women ever again. But like I told him what maters is those moments they shared together. That they should focus not on the loss but the happiness they shared together even if it wasn't for long. Like, think of it this way. You wouldn't regret going on a fun trip to some exotic country for a vacation would you? Just because it eventually ended? What matters is that you were happy for a time, even if you're not anymore. And yeah I don't mind bro, I'm sure stuff like that crosses plenty of people's minds all the time.
tigerfestivals
tigerfestivals @tigerfestivals You got a point, we would have sooo many more couples than we have now if people who were into each other kept running into each other. I'm going to assume that most couples probably had to lower their standards or met someone that managed to wow them in spite of them not being of interest at first. That's my theory anyway. As for my social retardation. I really am, when I'm in an environment of people I don't know doing things I don't care for, I just have nothing to say at all. I'm just mute, and whenever anyone would talk to me, I would give very weak responses. But it's the opposite when I'm in an environment full of like minded people doing things we're all into. Due to my social retardation, I can't enjoy the company of someone who's very different from me. For example I'm an something that isn't socially acceptable amongst most people. I'm a big introvert. Like Super Saiyan God Super Saiyan Mega Evolution Introvert. THAT'S how big of an introvert I am, and as a result I can't go to parties,or night clubs or bars to socialize and sadly the vast majority of people are into all of that. I think the flipside of aging is that people mature and learn and to avoid making the same mistakes that they made when they were younger. But a part of me will always think about how I missed out on getting with younger attractive women. But life doesn't really entitle you to anything really. But I suppose if I obtain my first girlfriend at age 47 or something I suppose it's better than nothing, although she's hit the wall, probably divorced or widowed and likely has children. Eh I'll probably pass if it comes down to it. I'm not comfortable raising kids that aren't mine. But if she doesn't have kids(which is highly unlikely if she's in her 30's and up)then perhaps I'll give it a go, if we have shared interests and personality. My late sister didn't want to get into relationships anymore due to how her last BF dumped her and my late sister just was never the same after that. She would cry,she would lay in her bed all day long being depressed and I kept trying to comfort her, but she would remain depressed. Not only that but an old friend was never the same after his last GF cheated on him for her Ex that treated her poorly. My friend says he just won't get involved with women after that, since many of his GF's cheated on him before his last one did. Those are just some examples. It's a sort of damned if you do and damned if you don't. You don't get into a relationship ever, you're going to keep longing for it, yet if you get into one and it turns out great at first then goes south and ends very badly then you'll never be the same again afterwards. So you're fucked either way. As for your friend I'm sorry for his loss, if she were a great woman I'm sure she would want him to move on and find someone else and to cherish the memories like you said. As for a vacation I can't see how anyone could ever regret going on a vacation. The fact that it's finite makes you enjoy it more while you're on it. If it lasted forever you'll eventually get sick of it. I think that might be one reason why people shouldn't take the people they have in their life for granted because you never know when that person maybe gone. Sorry for the late response, I needed to digest this info. Take your time with the reply I know I dropped alot to process.
tigerfestivals
tigerfestivals @tigerfestivals For example I'm an Atheist, something that isn't socially accepted I meant to say.
galiko23
Jul 11, 18 at 12:05pm
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Anytime babe <3
neet_one
galiko23
Jul 06, 18 at 2:43am
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Neeto, you are one of the most honest and realistic person around here; and that make you the most badass and coolest
tigerfestivals
Jul 04, 18 at 10:59pm
Neet your old venting topic has been revived.
neet_one
neeto @neet_one I just saw. Looks like it's my turn to be MO's pinata.
tigerfestivals
tigerfestivals @tigerfestivals Not to mention Yaashat is at it again too.
neet_one
neeto @neet_one It never ends....
yamadaed
Ed~ @yamadaed Nah, check it out properly, we gave our opinions, some.advice and we even stated there wasn't anything against you, if anything I think it was a good time to pay attention Ed
neet_one
Jun 30, 18 at 4:55pm
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Jun 28, 18 at 12:57pm
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