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joemama711
Sorry that you came back after having to deal with a buncha stuff. Are you still doing pilaties? Also sorry for me up and leaving, I wasn't taking care of my mental health.
lolax27
lolax27 @lolax27 Hey it's great to see you! Seriously been thinking about you. No need to explain, look at how many disappearances I make haha. Yes! I've been super into working out again after having some near fatal health issues. I've been doing some strength training also to try and work up my strength because my weight was low and my health was very poor. Seriously always wishing you the best through the years. I hope you're in a better state now. Sending my very best. Feel free to reach out whenever, would love to chat! Happy new year as well!
joemama711
Next time on my 200 Lb lif @joemama711 Oh shit gotta catch up sounds like you've been going through a lot owo. Hell yeah keep up the working out, ive been off the wagon since winters come in and I hate it lol. Im starting back up again after this Flu goes away. I hope you're doing a lot better though
lolax27
lolax27 @lolax27 I'd love to catch up! And thank you so much for the encouragement, it means a lot to me. And I can understand that, especially where you say you're not feeling well, it's so hard to workout. I hope you feel better! How long have you had the flu for? Wishing you a quick recovery and good luck getting back into the lifestyle :) And thank you, I'm doing a bit better, one day at a time
joemama711
Next time on my 200 Lb lif @joemama711 Sounds good to me, lmk if ya wanna talk, vc whatever up to you and its free to lift other people up plus its harder to lift myself up personally. Its been a week and a half, im mostly better but the body aches are still pretty bad.
lolax27
Oct 07, 23 at 10:29pm
And... back again somehow
redhawk
Red @redhawk Welcome back~
lolax27
lolax27 @lolax27 Thank you so much! <3
redhawk
Red @redhawk de nada :3
meisterman1985
meisterman1985 @meisterman1985 Welcome back! (◜ᴗ◝ )
lolax27
lolax27 @lolax27 Hello my friend, I'm so happy to see you're still here! :))
meisterman1985
meisterman1985 @meisterman1985 Me too! (◜ᴗ◝ )
marcus_k
Marcus @marcus_k omg, the timing/chances
lolax27
Mar 23, 22 at 1:07pm
Finally back. Almost 100 messages to respond to, and I promise to respond to each one of them, I'm happy to be back &lt;3
lolax27
Oct 20, 23 at 9:37pm
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Right after my surgery yesterday, I came home to this gorgeous wig in the mail. Made the day 100 times better! (For anyone interested, it's Tea Leaf Layer by BelleTress in Marshmallow Blonde) I've worn wigs for a while, but this is the first luxury one I've tried and it's worth it. I am shocked by how natural and beautiful it is. Looks and feels just like my real hair before my asthma got too intense and I could no longer bleach it.
lolax27
lolax27 @lolax27 commented on Advice?
Oct 08, 23 at 1:06am
I know I'm a little late, but here's my input. For context I fell deeply in love with someone who I fully believed I would spend the rest of my life with. I had a medical emergency and they flat out told me they did not love me and hadn't for a long time. It's heartbreaking, I know how you feel. I'm sending you lots of hugs. I bet you've been told half a dozen times, "This too shall pass." I know it sounds like an empty platitude, but there's truth to it. One day, it may be a very long time from now, this won't feel as intense. The pain can and does fade, maybe just a little, but it will. But for now, be patient with yourself, and let yourself feel the sadness and process it all. My advice is to invest in yourself. Know that you are lovable. You are worthy. Work on building yourself up. When this first happened to me, I was a mess, collapsing on the floor (literally) believing I would never feel anything good again. It's still hard to feel like I can find love again, hell I may never find marriage/romance again, that's just life. But building yourself up, surrounding yourself with the people you do have around, and being gentle with yourself will pay off. Don't force yourself to get "back out there" in the dating scene too soon. The other relationships we have in our lives, like with friends, parents, etc. can sometimes end up on the back burner during long term relationships. You might be surprised what you find when you tend to those other relationships more. I've found myself getting so much closer to my mother and best friend since what happened to me. I also feel more grateful for these relationships. Listen to yourself and how you feel. Get to know yourself again. Sometimes in moments like this we just need some good friends around and we mistake needing friends for wanting romance. If you are lonely, putting yourself out there for friendships can be super helpful and just as fulfilling. Don't put romantic pressures on connections upfront, that often just leads to more disappointment and rushing things. I only say that because I tried it recently and it only made me feel worse. Just see where things go with someone. Separations change our perspective sometimes. Our tastes change. Giving a person a chance without putting too much pressure on where that connection goes, will take you a long way. My best advice is to try something new and find what makes YOU happy and who you are as a person, outside of a long term relationship. I know that feeling though, when you go to bed it's the hardest. Believe me, I've had some sobbing nights going to bed alone. I try to reframe it. That time you spend alone is not going to be wasted. What you're doing to work on yourself, raise your child, work hard, etc. that's going to come back to you one day. You'll just have even more to share with that special person when you do meet them. Don't give up hope! That's a message for myself too lol
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