I give up.

@yasshat https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/4e/3a/90/4e3a90f63790d1edc93a7fc3b768ca20.jpg

Hmmm relationships are scary at first. I think before you understand yourself and your wants and needs the task of trying to incorporate your life with another's is a hurculean task. Day9 gave some good advice when he said to go fail at something. To just go out and try your hardest at something you are passionate about and then fail. That failing can be used to help you learn about life and yourself. I don't view a change in gender as an answer to the problem but this isn't the point. For someone who is having issues beginning a relationship, I would agree with those saying keep trying, but also the fear of failure seems more scary than it is. Also, understanding for me has been a big help. Possibly a hindrance in some ways but that's not the point again. Ehhhh to sum it up, I would say, don't be Afraid to ask about what you don't understand, make sure you understand what it is that you don't understand, get to know yourself and understanding yourself and your wants. I think that will help build the core for finding someone who you will match with. Feel free to ask me more, or for clarification. I want to go on a large tangent but am trying to stay on topic. So in the end, life isn't too bad, just seems that way. And sometimes a little bustyourassadone helps.

every girl I've meet for the past 2 and a half years was either already taken or lesbian. Any advice for me? I joined this site hoping to at least make friends. a relationship seems like an out of reach dream to me.

dude, you are a kid. Wait till your 21 and you can drink alcohol. It's confidence juice. Most of my relationships have been formed when I was intoxicated XD

I like your attitude Hiddenlight. No sarcasm intended Some people just need a little darkness and edgy-ness to grow. What? You think I'm here to tell you everything will get better and you're still young? No screw that, consume all the frustrations.