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Do your parents treat you like a kid?

nightvenger
If so..what kind of things do they do.
reclaw
They do not. It's more like we are best friends. Just weirder. Feels a bit forced.
hell_hound7
They kinda do and dont. Im already an adult yeah but i still have to do whatever they tell me to do (mostly cuz i live in their house) though they arent strict with me cuz im about to leave home so they recognize im moving on to adult life
siruboo
Ya. She made me lose 1,000 bucks because she changed her mind about buying something I want and wanted the money back and it got lost somehow. It was my money. She has to hold on to my money and do what she wants with it.
bonfiyah
Nope. However, I get treated as if I'm stupid just because I'm younger than them despite I've been teaching them shit literally since middle school. They wouldn't know much if I wasn't there. Since they lack the competence to teach themselves, I have to teach them most of the time while teaching myself too. They're honestly terrible at parenting but I guess my mom did taught me a few good things.
lilithotaku
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infernalmonsoon
Not so much with my dad but it does happen rarely but with my mom... Jeez, all the damn time with her - like yeah I'm her kid and all that but I'm 22 ffs y'know? If I wanted advice and a helping hand then I'd ask for it, I don't need her constantly baby-ing me through absolutely everything I do since I'm more than capable of handling myself in everything I do. I swear I'm developing some kind of complex the more she keeps believes I'm a six year old.
shinu
I think they've learned not to. When I was really young... 3 or 4... I got a gift that I felt like belittled my intelligence. Being so young maybe I shouldn't have felt so high and mighty, but I was pissed off so I just threw it away. Their intentions were pure, but it didn't change how I felt. I regretted throwing away someones gift with good intentions later that day, but the deed was done. I think ever since then they were more careful at considering what I felt about things, rather than what I should feel about them as a child. Though, later in life it they've tried every now and then, but my shit personality doesn't work with their attempts. If they try to tease me I literally ignore them and give them the cold shoulder. It might be harsh to not respond to your own parents talking to you, but they don't tease me anymore and now we mostly only have meaningful conversations, which I much prefer.
hakutaku
Yes, they do. They always regard me to be a vulnerable, naive, rebellious kid who will fail in everything←_← and always tell me how mature and virtuous their friends' daughters are. In their opinion, I will never truly grow up until I fulfill a certain "duty". Hmm, I will never grow up then, cos I ignore that "duty" on purpose. I haven't had meaningful conversations with them for years, they have no idea what kind person I'm like now~
nicootaku
yup....my parents are divorce and I live with my mom and her boyfriend. My mom's boyfriend lost all respect from me, thinking he has the right to ask my mom if he can tell me what to do (chores and boss me around) and I deal verbal abuse from him......even if I tried saying something they never listen and stick with each other. I'm 21 and work part time at my school but to them it makes me feel like they think its nothing and isn't looked upon as something and he thinks that he does so much and says "Try putting yourself in my Fucking shoes" My mom thinks i'm still 12 and can try telling/control my eatings and thinks i'm to fat. They've made me feel i'm still a baby and should listen to them while i'm under my mom's house (bc she pays the bills not him) they make me clean up things I don't use so they can go out and have fun because "we never see each other" sure the list of chores he writes isn't bad and i'll do it, but 1.) I shouldn't be told through notes 2.) your not my dad so don't act like it 3.) redardles of age if you live with a parent you should come first than a relationship not last lastly 4.) if you didn't adopt me to take care of me...don't tell me what to do, your not my parent
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