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neet_one
May 07, 17 at 4:12am
Lets say you really hit it off with someone you meet online but there's some distance between you two. Unfortunately these relationships are almost always doomed if one person doesn't relocate to the other. So, would you be willing to pack up and move across the country to be with them? What about moving to a different country all together? How far would you be willing to go? Or would you refuse to leave where you're at now?
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saynee
Saynee @saynee commented on Move
May 28, 17 at 8:57am
It depends on how much I love the person, where they live, job availability and if I can effectively/smoothly transition. Also I would have to have at least visited and experienced being there with them before just jumping the gun.
deathsong
DeathSong @deathsong commented on Move
May 28, 17 at 8:18pm
I honestly think it depends where it is. If it's not a place i think i belong, or would never be happy, i would hope they would move up my way. If neither of us could do that, then i guess it wont last long.
infernalmonsoon
If the girl is someone I really, truly love and she feels the same way about me then I would absolutely go out of my way to move in with her and I'd go as far as to move to another country be it through hell or high water.
gunvoltx
GunvoltX @gunvoltx commented on Move
Jun 24, 17 at 12:31am
I probably wouldn't. I'm not going to drop everything I'm doing and leave behind my family and friends just so I can be with a girl who is probably going to end up ditching me for someone else anyway. I'm sorry if my answer sounds pessimistic, but I'm just being real.
rainx
Rain @rainx commented on Move
Jun 24, 17 at 10:30pm
At this stage of my life, it'd be kinda difficult. I'm pretty established where I am with work, and while I technically don't have a lease on my current apartment (I'm month to month) and could pick myself up if need be, I don't exactly have the finances to move a significant distance i.e a few states away right now and it'd take several months to save up. If I met the right girl though and we hit it off, I'd consider it but also would be open to them eventually moving near me if they were even inclined to do so.
xueli
xueli @xueli commented on Move
Jun 25, 17 at 10:45am
Depends on how easy it is to get m y license transferred. If I have to take a law exam to work in another state, that's annoying but not soooo bad. Especially compared to me potentially having to redo 6+ years of school, and then a foreign licensing exam and whatever other exams they do if I were to move to another country. I didn't get my degree to not use it lol!
animekid
Jun 25, 17 at 12:12pm
It depends on the person and the situation and everything. I have been willing to move for someone before and honestly thank goodness I didn't because well just a lot of stuff but moving to a different state is something that I would possibly be willing to do but at one point I stopped to think about it when I was close to becoming involved with someone in a different country and I'm not sure if I would be willing to move for anybody to a different country. The last person I was with I was pretty much ready to give up anything and up group my entire life. Kind of a do-or-die thing. When I stop to think about it though it occurred to me that I'm not entirely certain that I would have been willing to move even for them to a different country so I'm not sure whether or not I would ever be willing to move to a different country but who knows period then again who knows if I'll ever have to decide something like that.
gurren921
AyeBoss @gurren921 commented on Move
Jun 25, 17 at 12:41pm
there would have to be a deep connection, and a somewhat long relationship. Moving in with someone is no small task, and I wouldn't reccomend it if you haven't been dating for at least a year, if not more. Even more so for a long distance, online relationship. A big thing is job availability as well. If I could get a job near my significant others home, and have it pay as much or more than I currently make I would really consider it, but only after time and distance has had a chance to test our bond. I like it up in NYC, but i like her just a bit more xD I guess it comes down to if its an actual relationship, and if the finances are in order.
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