Nav
or Sign Up

The "looking for a relationship" thread

MaiOtaku Forums > Relationship Advice > The "looking for a relationship" thread
jikokun
<3

We dont officially have one of these, so I'm coming off my break and starting one.

The point of this thread is to attempt to find somebody that you feel youre interested in via the forums. Be yourself. Create a post that displays who you are, what youre looking for, hobbies, whatever you feel like. Most of all, be creative.

<b>PLEASE! THIS IS NOT A THREAD TO GOOF OFF IN.</b>

The purpose of this thread is to try and bring the dating portion of this site back into the picture. I know many of us are shy and/or have high anxiety, but hopefully this thread can help ease the fears and match people up with others.

May 25, 14 at 9:15pm
vampire_neko
<3

Bio:

Hello, my name is Joshua. I'm 37yrs old 5'10" 140+ lbs blue eyes brown hair.

Hobbies: photography (when I get a new camera), cinematography, chainmail, audiophile (speakers, headphones), metaphysics (astral projection), and anime.

Music: 90s alternative rock from Nirvana to Tool to NIN to early Marilyn Manson. Industrial, metal (death,.doom, black), female fronted (Jack Off Jill, Emile Autumn, Rasputina, Otep, early Kittie, the usual female fronted metal, like Evanescence etc.) Some occasional J-rock/visual kei and K-pop.

First off, I'm looking for friends everywhere to talk to about anime and anything else. Second, I'm looking for local friends near where I am now on the coast of Oregon and where I plan to be in a year in southern California most likely. Third, I'm looking for someone that I can develope enough of a connection to for the possibility of a serious relationship.

I am willing to move anywhere I can afford to be with someone if enough feelings developed. Finding someone to love and who loves me is the most important thing in my life.

As to what I'm looking for in someone else, I don't have some specific exact criteria. Personality is the most important thing, I'm attracted to a wide variety as far as looks go. I like someone who is affectionate and loves to cuddle. You can't be too clingy for me but you don't have to be, but I feel unwanted if someone is too aloof. I like to do most things together. I like to travel and explore and prefer someone who enjoys that too. But I also like to cuddle and watch movies or anime.

May 25, 14 at 9:30pm
jikokun
<3

I'll start since its my thread.

My name is Tony. I'm 29 and from Pennsylvania. I am currently going to school for Hotel/Restaurant Management and Culinary. I currently work part time at a pharmacy as a shift supervisor.

I am a fan of RPGs of all kinds; MMOs, J rpgs, etc. I also enjoy playing Dungeons and Dragons. I am also a huge fan of Super Nintendo.

When im not gaming I like watching some tv. Some of my favourate are Breaking Bad, American Horror Story, Walking Dead, Supernatural, The Tomorrow People, Hell's Kitchen amd many others.

Im not huge into movies, only because I dont really go out to see them often, but I do like a few. Silent hill, Frozen, The first three Saw movies.. I dont know, theres more, I'm sure.

I enjoy anime and cosplay. Feel free to ask me on my wall or via messenger if you'd like to know which. Too many to name, haha.

Music, I love awkward bands. Chiodos, Saosin, Circa Survive, Framing Hanley to name a few, but also bands like Taking Back Sunday, Emery, Silversun Pickups, Modest Mouse, and many others. I also love 90s alternitive.

I love to cuddle. Its just the best thing ever. Haha.

What I am looking for:
- somebody who is shy, but can be fun and goof off once they are comfortable with me.
-I do not like smoking at all, that is a deal breaker.
-I don't mind drinking, as long as its not in excess (In other words, youre not out partying and blacking out on the weekends).
-Somebody who can get my sense of sarcasm, and throw it back at me, but also knows how be serious when the occasion calls for it.
-Age doesn't matter as long as you are mature enough to handle a long term relationship.
-Location doesn't matter. If things get serious, we will figure things out from there.
-Overall, be yourself. I want somebody who I can be myself around, so I would expect you to do the same.

If you are interested, send me a message on my wall or add me as a friend and message me.

:)

May 25, 14 at 9:35pm
oreo717
<3

not to offend but i think only guys will be commenting on this thread

May 26, 14 at 1:25am
jikokun
<3

That doesn't mean this the site is males only. Females also view the boards. Women post also, so I highly doubt no women will post.

May 26, 14 at 1:38pm
ema_hinata

Bio: My name is Katherine, I am 20 years old and 168 cm tall. I have hazel eyes and dark brown hair.

Hobbies: watching anime, reading manga, playing computer games, hiking, drawing.

Music: I listen to everything! I was a big metal fan back in the days and I still enjoy metal music. I love grunge music and classic rock. My favorite bands are Slipknot, Nirvana, Alice In Chains, Guns n Roses, Aerosmith. At the moment I mostly listen to anime openings.

I really love anime. Its's one of my favorite things in life. I like to collect anime stuff as well like nendoroids,keychains etc. My favorite anime is Kaichou wa Maid-sama I enjyo every type of animr but my favorite has to be shoujo and romance. I don't really eatvh TV but at the weekends I watch American horror story (currently on the third season). Besides that I am a anime addict I am also a huge pokemon freak (not just the anime the games also) and star wars freak (movies and games).

Fun facts about me: I really like biting others and when others bite me kinda have a vampire fetish. (thank you Vampire Knight) I really really hate bananas and plums. I am a sweets addict. A big animal lover especially cats ^^

What I am looking for: First of all friends with similar interests. Second someone special? Just don't be mean,rude and pushy. I am really a shy person so please have patience with me. I am always really bussy so don't get angry if I don't replay immediately. Just looking for someone normal, I don't really have a deal breaker just be nice and polite. It doesn't matter where are you from or are you a male or female, how old are you. Love can happen anytime to anybody.

If you are interested message me or write me on the wall ^^ I will gladly respond :)

Now this thread doesn't have males only lol ^^

May 26, 14 at 7:24pm
ryvius

I'm Steve, 26, KS, 145lbs 5'7. Brown hair and eyes. Baby face, I know.

Currently working full time as a pharmacy tech and going back to college for drafting and maybe more. I love learning and enjoy being back in that environment. I'd take a classroom over online actually. Always been a fan of architecture, level design, maps, and art along those lines.

Hobbies: The usual for a place like this, videogames are #1 and then anime. I do not let age determine quality, so I am a big fan of both old and new games and the same applies to anime. Old OVA's and movies can be breathtaking to look at and imagine how they were crafted. Nowadays I eat healthy and enjoy trying my hand at cooking. I prefer the sun thesedays and try to get out a little if I can, but also like to stay in. Green is my favorite color because it's lively and adventurous. I'm not really the documentary guy haha, but I do love things about ancient history (Egyptian stuff especially). Always been a fan of board games and stuff, Thunderstone is cool.

Videogames: Favorite systems are the SNES and PSX. From there I'd say the NES, Genesis, and PS2 all kind of clash. I'm always playing both old and new. Right now I'm digging the PS3 and Wii U (yeah, the Wii U is legit!)... all time favorite games would be Zelda Link to the Past and Super Metroid. Big fan of JRPG's and anything sci-fi.

Movies: Always been a fan of sci-fi, so I would say some of my favorites are Blade Runner, Star Wars OT, Jurassic Park, Alien, etc. Big fan of comedies too.

Music: I like a lot of metal, from Judas Priest to Iron Maiden to some modern stuff like Killswitch or something. In general I like a lot of rock too. I'm cool with 90's hip hop. But I spend a lot of time listening to soundtracks from videogames or movies/anime. Beyond that it gets weird with some stuff like jazz fusion or new age. I like a lot of music, but it can be a bit out there haha.

TV: I'm putting this here because it's the one weird thing (compared to the mainstream/norm)... I just straight up don't really watch American TV, ever haha. So it's almost purely anime, live action dramas, and such for me. That said I do keep up with some shows if my friends get a group going, so I'm not against it. I'd just rather watch my own stuff when I'm alone.

Fun facts: I beat Megaman 10 without getting hit. Beat Devil May Cry 3 on Dante Must Die. heh

What I'm looking for:

Location, I'm not really against anything at this point in life. I'll let life take me where it wants.

Physically, basically I've just always liked short slender women (since jr high, so forever).

If you know anything about a Libra... let's just say I fit the bill a bit. "Balance" is a major thing for me. I like to go out and like to stay in. I have many hobbies and interests and am always up for trying something new out. I can be routine with simple things. I don't drink often but when I do I have fun.

If that's good so far, let's just say loyalty and honesty are the big ones for me. Assurance is huge and something I admittedly enjoy, whether it's in words, affection, or gifts, my appreciation for it goes a long way. I'd definitely want someone that can take care of themselves physically, hygiene and health wise, as I do. Someone who loves life in general and is optimistic. Optimism makes me a better person and is something I enjoy being around. We're here to have fun! Intelligence can be an easy turn on, but also remember to keep your head on the level, haha. Smart, funny, and down to Earth. Just simply someone who can take care of me with the simple things, because I'll easily do the work and move the mountains aside for us to get anywhere.

Looking for that best friend.

Nice guys don't finish last... boring guys do. I'm not boring. ^_~

If you're interested, let me know!

May 26, 14 at 10:39pm
metaljester
<3

No longer Applies to me.

May 27, 14 at 1:46am
animegirl12192
<3

Hello! My name is Lisa. I am a twenty-one year old otaku who is from Kansas City, Missouri and I stand at 5 feet 5 inches.

My eyes are a bluish-grey color. I am a brunette with very thick, long and naturally curly hair.

My hobbies include watching anime, role-playing, writing, cos-playing, going to conventions, drawing, playing videogames (RPGS & MMORPGS), watching cartoons, and cooking.

Here is a list of some of my favorite video games:

Tales of series (Tales of Symphonia, Tales of Symphonia: Dawn of the New World, Tales of Abyss, Tales of Xillia etc.) Harvest Moon, Animal Crossing, Sonic the hedgehog, Pokemon and Kingdom Hearts.

I may watch anime but that doesn't mean that I don't watch regular TV shows as well. My favorites include: Once Upon A Time, Modern Family, Hell's Kitchen, That 70's show, Boys Meets World, The Chase and much more.

Here are my favorite cartoons: South Park, Fairly Odd Parents, Phineas and Ferb, Gravity Falls and Spongebob Squarepants.

Favorite Movies: I love any Disney and Hayao Miyazaki movies. Going to the movie theater has become a hobby for me. I try to see new releases whenever I possibly can. Of course, the movie needs to strike my interest. The newest movies I have seen are Frozen, Walking with Dinosaurs, The Lego Movie, and Muppets Most Wanted. The newest movie I plan on seeing is Maleficent.

Favorite Music: I love listening to Jpop music. One of my favorite singers would have to be Ayumi Hamasaki. I'm also a huge fan of Miku Hatsune! I love Vocaloid! I don't have a long list of favorite music, I love listening to music from my favorite anime and video games. I also love listening to music from Disney movies. I can listen to those repeatably. : )

Here are several important facts you must know about me:
If we were to meet in person I will come off as a reserved person because of my shyness but I can open up once I am comfortable around you!
It's easier for me to express how I feel online.
I tend to write novel-length paragraphs especially if I find you very interesting, we're compatible and we have a lot in common!
If you cannot stand writing long messages then don't message me. Short paragraphs are boring and they will not make the conversation last long!

Here are some good points!

I can be a naturally funny person because of that I can make others laugh and smile.
I believe in committed and long-term relationships!
I love to cuddle! : ) Once I am comfortable around you; I can be loving and affectionate.
I am a cat person for life!
I REFUSE to smoke.
I REFUSE to drink.

As of right now I am currently working part-time as a maintenance worker. Which means it doesn't pay much due to it being Janitorial work. I get about 3 hours in every night Monday through Friday.

I plan on looking for a full time job sometime soon. As for what exactly? I have no idea.

What I am looking for:

To me the most essential thing when looking for someone is that they believe in being faithful, honesty, and love. Those three are very essential for a long-term and committed relationship. Over-all I just want to find that someone who I can be myself around. In other words, I'm looking for my best friend and other half. Now what about your age, gender, physical appearance and location? Does that matter to me? No, it doesn't. Just please note that is highly preferable if you don't smoke or drink.
Friends are always welcome if you do not wish to pursue a relationship!

Here's one thing I would like to add on: If you are someone who doesn't have any patience and constantly pesters someone just because they don't respond right away then PLEASE don't message me! It's a pet peeve!

Only guys will be commenting on this thread? You're mistaken. I'm a woman. Haha!
I've had this account since 2012. Only just recently decided to lurk the forums and log back in. : )

May 27, 14 at 10:08am
Please login to post.